Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is the g-spot's kissing cousin when it gets nearer to "is it real or is it fake" medical debates.

In one corner are the legions of doctors, who when asked, preserve that there is no way a woman can ejaculate. They point out that in their textbooks, and anatomy classes there are simply no structures to provide for this physiological experience. They say that if anything is happening, it's urination.

In the other corner there are arguably larger legions of women, women's health practitioners, sex activists, a few scientists, and thousands or tens of thousands of women who say that it does exist.

There are no standards or rules for this. Some women are worried that they have incontinence and that they are peeing during sex, or specifically throughout orgasm. Some women have always been "very very wet" during stimulation and climax, and like the way they respond. Because of the increased notice paid in the popular media to female ejaculation there are many women who want to know more, and are interested in trying to ejaculate.

The bottom line, as with all matters of sexual response and behavior is to avoid any sort of force to do something or experience something that doesn't feel right for you. If you do something that you think is ejaculating, and your happy with it, that's wonderful. If you're concerned that you are "too wet" during sex, you should know that there is a very normal variation in the amount of vaginal lubrication that women produce, and getting wet is probably just a sign of healthy arousal. You can always have a towel handy if it's a real concern for you. And if you're interested in learning more about female ejaculation then you should go for it. Just try and keep away from the pitfalls of performance pressure, and thinking that ejaculation is some magic bullet that will change your sex life from humdrum to super fantastic. Of course it might do that, but counting on it is a sure way to miss important learning and experience along the way.

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